Sunday, July 28, 2024

Dear Friends, 

Having returned from a full month in Africa, I have a number of images lodged in my brain.  

— A young girl who won the 100 meter race for her 6th grade class.  She had no running shoes.  She ran across a field littered with rocks in her socked feet.  Her victory smile was radiant.

— A young girl with a congenital heart condition.  The condition was not diagnosed at her birth.   In the United States, the problem would have been easily fixed.  Now she will be lucky to live another 10 years.  

— A mother who makes $3-4 per day washing clothes.  Next to her one-room house is an open sewage ditch.  When it rains, the house is flooded with sewage.  She needs a retaining wall which she cannot afford.  

— A jazz band from one of our schools in the Kibera Slum.  A boy is playing the bass … another on saxophone … another on keyboards … and a girl on drums.  They beam with pride.  

What does it all mean?  What is God teaching me in/through these encounters?  Well, the lessons are endless.  Perhaps at the end of the day for sentient beings, every encounter is fraught with lessons.  There is simply so much to be taken in.       

Here are a few conclusions.  I am grateful for running shoes, and other shoes that protect my feet.  I am grateful for doctors. I am grateful that sewage doesn’t run through my house when it rains.  I am grateful for every child born into poverty who has the courage to smile.  I am grateful for children who are in love with their musical instruments.

Some of the above images make me sad because I am acutely aware that my privilege is nothing more than an accident of birth.  For a brief moment, my sadness gives way to gratitude;  but then in a flash it returns to sadness.  For it is my unsettled heart that beckons me to hand out shoes, build retaining walls, and set the stage for a world committed to serious transformation.   

Be grateful.  Be satisfied.  Be sad.  Be inspired.  

Carter            

Sunday, July 21, 2024

Dear Friends, 

The Christian faith is unrelenting in its expectation that human beings should practice honest self-criticism.  Socrates said the same thing: “The unexamined life is not worth living.”  

Yet Christianity declares an important truth which in a sense precedes self-examination.  Christianity proclaims that we came into this world loved and loveable. For many of us, that truth got twisted along the way.  It got buried.  It lies hidden.

Why does this matter?  It matters because we must learn to see what is hidden from us. We must rediscover the deep well of love for us and in us.  We must rediscover our capacity to shine light and share grace.  

As we engage in this process of rediscovery, we are then able to uncover and bring to the light our blind spots.  Who doesn’t have blind spots?  Who doesn’t need to be forgiven?  Who doesn’t need behavior modification?  I can safely say, “All of us.”  

This Sunday, we will look at how easily human beings deceive themselves, cover the truth, and lose sight of what matters the most. 

I hope to see you on Sunday. 

Carter        

Sunday, July 14, 2024

Dear Friends,
 
Isn’t summer magical? Every year I find new things that summer brings my way. I share this with the patients at Silver Hill. It is no surprise that Spirituality in Nature is one of my most popular groups. Even those who are challenged with the concept of the spiritual have no problems pointing out the subtle nuances of weeds and wildflowers, flora and fauna and root systems and rivers. It invokes wonder, curiosity, astonishment and hope. It doesn’t speak in words. For many, it points toward God and opens the vast possibilities of God’s very real presence in the creation at our feet and fingertips. 
 
On the other hand, while many people appreciate the beauty, they have no patience for the infinite mysteries behind it. I am the opposite. I don’t think my spiritual life would be nearly as rewarding if I served a God who I had all figured out. I embrace the astonishment in life. It simply invites deeper wonder of God’s place at the source of it all.  It also points to a love and a power beyond my comprehension that will help guide me and my many flaws to be part of something bigger and eternal.
 
I look forward to being with you on Sunday morning to think about where God sustains us with both astonishment and love.
 
Love,
Cheryl

Sunday, July 7, 2024

Dear Friends, 

I am writing to you from Africa where I have been for these past 3 weeks.  It has been deeply felt and magnanimously rewarding.  

Once again, the cross-cultural experience supports my conviction that the spiritual life encourages risk, a willingness to explore, to go beyond what is comfortable, and always to be less afraid.  Many years ago, I heard Henri Nouwen describe Western spirituality as suffocated and disembodied.  Is that true?  The answer of course lies in the heart of each person.  

But his statement draws me to the wonderful words of poet, Dawna Markova:

I will not die an unlived life
I will not live in fear
of falling or catching fire.
I choose to inhabit my days,
to allow my living to open me,
to make me less afraid,
more accessible,
to loosen my heart
until it becomes a wing,
a torch, a promise.
I choose to risk my significance;
to live so that which came to me as seed
goes to the next as blossom
and that which came to me as blossom,
goes on as fruit.

She goes on to interpret the meaning of her poem:

“Traveling from the known to the unknown requires crossing an abyss of emptiness. We first experience disorientation and confusion. Then if we are willing to cross the abyss in curious and playful wonder, we enter an expansive and untamed country that has its own rhythm. Time melts and thoughts become stories, music, poems, images, ideas. This is the intelligence of the heart, but by that I don't mean just the seat of our emotions. I mean a vast range of receptive and connective abilities, intuition, innovation, wisdom, creativity, sensitivity, the aesthetic, qualitative and meaning making. It is here that we uncover our purpose and passion.”

I believe more than ever that Markova’s words lie close to God’s intention for each one of us.  How is God calling you?  What are you ready to do that is completely different from your past choices and patterns?  Are you actively dismantling the fears that have limited your joy?    

I look forward to seeing you again soon. 

Carter   

Sunday, June 30, 2024

Friends

I am writing this week, at the start of summer travels in which many of us are fortunate enough to rest and recreate in softer climes.  Whether near or far away, I hope you will join us this Sunday to experience a new voice talking to us about healing.

In the pulpit, we will welcome the Rev. Mark Montgomery.

Mark serves as one of the Co-Pastors at Wilton Presbyterian Church.  From his early days as a cradle Presbyterian, Mark was ordained in the United Church of Christ. He has worked alongside UCC and Presbyterian congregations from California to Texas and South Carolina up through New Jersey, New York and Connecticut, in both settled and interim ministry. Mark’s ordination standing is currently held in the Presbyterian Church U.S.A.

Mark says that professionally his best days happen when art, faith, and the community of God all come together to birth a creative and interactive experience.  Personally, it’s hard to beat a day on Cape Cod, mountain bike trail riding, or simply hiking with his dogs.

Here is Mark’s invitation for this Sunday. “In the scripture passage for this week [Mark 5:21-43] we encounter two healings. Both are women. Both are healed. The similarities seem to end there and yet, it is one reading, in one Gospel chapter. What might we understand if we consider this as one story of healing, involving multiple characters and their diverse perspectives? How do our own perspectives shape the story? How is our faith challenged and strengthened? Let us explore the process, idea, and reality of healing and how it shapes our own story.”

You are called.

Patrice